My sister called and said I am sending you a comic coloring book on divorce. Here is your to do list. Go to the Snuggle Hunk page and get ready to laugh. We are having a marital bed redo party for you.
1. Go to TJ Max or Marshalls and get the goofiest, tacky bedspread you can find, buy it and bring it home.
2. Go on the attic and get your old maternity body pillow.
3. Don't make plans for next weekend. Gary (who I told you not to marry) has the kids that weekend and I am driving up to see you with some of your high school friends.
I buy a denim and pink spread and shams. I thought denim went out in the 80's! The doorbell rings around 8:30 on Friday night. In comes the wines, my sister and 3 really good friends from high school to bring lots of laughs. We take off my old bedspread and put on the new one. It is horrible but funny and it actually feels good to see something new that does not remind me of my Ex. Next comes the making of the Snuggle Hunk. My sister brought a gray men's shirt and we all start making a Snuggle Hunk. We put post it notes on the Snuggle Hunk of everything I want my next partner to be and say to me....
I woke up the next morning happy for the first time in months. That stupid looking Snuggle Hunk was laying next to me and I just burst out laughing. I decided to keep him on the bed where my Ex used to sleep. Turns out laughter does help and I don't feel so alone anymore. I am going to get a real Snuggle Hunk one day. It is kind of like a fake it tell you make it philosophy! -Lucy W.
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